[VIDEO BLOG] It’s important to make time for each other and create moments where sex might happen, without feeling like it has to. In this short video, I talk about how to approach spending intimate time together in a way that decreases the pressure but increases the chances that you’ll actually want to have sex.
[VIDEO BLOG] Too many people neglect their sex life. Part of creating and maintaining a healthy intimate life is to make time for it. In this short video, I talk about the struggle people have to make time for each other, and I outline a few strategies for changing that.
[VIDEO BLOG] How often do you put any effort into your sex life? For many people, sex becomes routine. In this short video, I talk about the importance of investing in your sex life so you can keep it interesting.
[VIDEO BLOG] If you’ve promised that you’d see a doctor or a therapist about a sexual issue, it’s important that you follow through. In this short video, I talk about the value of keeping your word and honoring your relationship by taking care of issues.
[VIDEO BLOG] Our minds are busy creatures, and it’s common to have trouble settling down to relax and enjoy sex. In this short video, I talk about the difficulty people can have quieting their mind and how important it is to overcome this to improve their sex life.
[VIDEO BLOG] Many people prioritize almost everything else ahead of their sex life, thinking sex (or your partner) can wait. But your sex life will wither if you don’t tend to it. In this short video, I talk about how sex ends up at the bottom of the list and how you can start to […]
[VIDEO BLOG] If you’d rather sleep than have sex, you are probably living at the edge of exhaustion and overwhelm. In this short video, I talk about the impact of a busy life on your sexual relationship, as well as some ideas about what to do about it.
[VIDEO BLOG] One sign that your desire discrepancy has gotten to be a problem is when one of you does all of the initiating of sex. In this short video, I talk about how people fall into that trap and the importance of having some balance in suggesting sex.
[VIDEO BLOG] If your sex is always about getting done as efficiently as possible, you’re missing out on pleasure and inspiration. You may also be setting yourself up for sexual dysfunction in the future. In this short video, I address the value of taking detours and scenic routes on your road to pleasure.
[VIDEO BLOG] There is always someone who wants sex more than the other person, at least over time, and that is not a problem by itself. But frequency of sex can become a problem, creating tension, conflict and hurt feelings. In this short video, I talk about how you know if it’s a problem and […]