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After Sex and Between

Last week, I asked you and your partner to talk about what happens when you have sex. Next, I want you to discuss what happens after sex. What Happens After (and Between) Sex? When sex is a [...]

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What Happens During Sex?

In this series of blog posts, I am asking you and your partner to examine your patterns around sex. You discussed initiation and how you talk about you sex life. Now let’s look at what happens [...]

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Talking About Sex

Last week, I ask you and your partner to begin discussing your patterns around sex. Next, let’s address how you both communicate about sex at this point in your relationship. How Do You Talk [...]

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Initiation

Over the next few weeks, I am going to ask you and your partner to examine your unique sexual dance – the choreography you go through each time you have, or don’t have, sex. The goal is for you [...]

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Your Unique Dance

The goal of my last series of blogs posts has been to help you and your partner uncover what it is about your lives, past and present, that has lead you into the sexual avoidance cycle. Hopefully [...]

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Relationship Issues

Last week, I discussed how loss can cause couples to avoid sex. There are many relationship issues that may also be at the root of your avoidance cycle. Let’s look at a few. Relationship Issues [...]

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Loss

In this series of blog post, I am addressing some common reasons that couple’s avoid sex. As you read these, be honest with yourself about if and how these issues are getting in the way of your [...]

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The Desire Discrepancy

Over the past several weeks, I have prompted you and your partner to talk about the various experiences from your past that may be contributing to the difficulties in your sex life today. [...]

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How Did Your Family Talk About Sex?

Last week, I asked you and your partner to discuss the love and support your experienced in your families growing up. Now let’s talk about sex. Sex Your family has a big impact on your attitude [...]

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Sex is important

Sex, intimacy and relationships are important in our lives. As humans, we are designed to be in relationship to others. Our connection to the people we love makes a big difference in our quality [...]