VIDEO BLOG: If one of you is just going through the motions during sex, especially if you’re making it clear that you aren’t engaged, you are draining the connection out of your sex life.
VIDEO BLOG: In order to avoid having or talking about sex, people will often choose to ignore comments or deflect them using humor. In a healthy relationship, people can talk directly about what’s going on.
VIDEO BLOG: One of the most frequent reasons that couples start to avoid sex is because there is a sexual problem that hasn’t been addressed.
VIDEO BLOG: There’s nothing like having sex end badly and seem like a failure to get people to start to avoid it. The answer is to tackle the expectations and the problems head on.
VIDEO BLOG: The ability to talk about sex – what’s happening and what you want – is important if you want to create your best sex life. When people can’t talk about sex, they’ll often end up avoiding sex rather than address what they need to change.