Do you go to bed at the same time?

VIDEO BLOG: There is a high correlation between not going to bed at the same time as your partner and avoidance of sex. It’s not the only reason; sometimes there are really good reasons for having different schedules. But it’s worth asking if you and/or your partner are using it as a way to avoid […]

When negativity rules your sex life

Fighting, blame, criticism, shame and cruelty…While trace amounts of these elements can exist in a healthy relationship, perhaps, most of your relationship should be about support, encouragement, constructive feedback, respect and self-confrontation.  Though David Scharch has coined the term “normal marital sadism” and writes about the fact that we can love AND hate our partners […]